The saddest aspect related to demanding job of a doctor is, it somehow leaves the person in no good relation with those he then wants to be with . Let it be med school, or be it medical practise, someone had said it very right , that a doctor who is sincere with his job is never good at keeping relationships healthy, and a doctor having very healthy relationships is not doing good with his job. Multiple examples and experiences are there that testify this. I cannot comment how this happens with all others having demanding jobs as policemen, military personnels , rescue workers, security guards ,but somehow , i have a feeling that keeping relationships healthy is a tough task, how tougher it would be when lets say a man and his spouse both are doctors.
It is a matter that requires intense attention and is the one that is being neglected the most.
Its because everyone is stuck in his routine.
We have created our daily chores, tasks , and schedules.
The lifestyle so opted has indulged us all in routines where either we cannot afford to properly manage our relationships along, or we never get an insight that relationships need time.
Like a patient who can access his doctor in time, like a critical being who is attended with affection by his physician, like the way a doctor tolerates the harsh words from a patient or his attendant, a doctor must realize that someone at home or in friends also needs the same affectionate caring, and deserves the same level of care at some point . Not necessarily in their disease, but more often in their health. The dilemma is doctors are poor time managers when it comes to their own relationships or their homes. They manage it excellently when it comes to their patient, both of them right on schedule. But what about closer blood relation, or soul mate ? There's the real deficit . Time deficit, Attention deficit, deficit of care and tolerance.
It is a matter that requires intense attention and is the one that is being neglected the most.
Its because everyone is stuck in his routine.
We have created our daily chores, tasks , and schedules.
The lifestyle so opted has indulged us all in routines where either we cannot afford to properly manage our relationships along, or we never get an insight that relationships need time.
Like a patient who can access his doctor in time, like a critical being who is attended with affection by his physician, like the way a doctor tolerates the harsh words from a patient or his attendant, a doctor must realize that someone at home or in friends also needs the same affectionate caring, and deserves the same level of care at some point . Not necessarily in their disease, but more often in their health. The dilemma is doctors are poor time managers when it comes to their own relationships or their homes. They manage it excellently when it comes to their patient, both of them right on schedule. But what about closer blood relation, or soul mate ? There's the real deficit . Time deficit, Attention deficit, deficit of care and tolerance.
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