Not a simple word, not assessed by any score or a calculation, its a feeling of belief that we have subconsciously in everything we are in communication with. Our cars, pets, friends, our family , all living and non living things which are communicating with us , we have some degree of trust shared with them. A little we give it to them. A little they give it to us. And this little then builds up into something precious , a stronger belief and a stronger relation. Daily we trust our vehicles, we trust our friends. But this trust, then, varies in degrees from person to person. And as it varies from one person to other , its because of the time tested moments with others that this relation comes into being.
Take out trust between two parties, between two friends, between a man and his woman, or a boy and his pet, there will be left nothing but merely two breathing soles. Disconnected from one another. Separated. Walking perhaps on the same road but in opposite directions.
Trust is the basis which we have subconsciously built up in our minds but we hardly try to assess it, Yet when the moment of test comes, when we are betrayed , or when we have a feeling of betrayal or of being lied with , we conclude our relationships. In such situations hastiness is not rewarding. Rather circumstances and events should be assessed before the actual person under assessment.
However, if such betrayals or lies are routine then its easy to make a general assumption about some one, their attitude towards you . And so as one lets go off the trust, nothing remains there.Not even the feeling of caring for the other. And that's how the subconscious mind then builds up the relation as if two cars pass by each other and drivers hardly notice that who is driving the car. This trust once lost, can be gained back , but very rarely. For trust once broken always caries the repaired cracks with it then.
Take out trust between two parties, between two friends, between a man and his woman, or a boy and his pet, there will be left nothing but merely two breathing soles. Disconnected from one another. Separated. Walking perhaps on the same road but in opposite directions.
Trust is the basis which we have subconsciously built up in our minds but we hardly try to assess it, Yet when the moment of test comes, when we are betrayed , or when we have a feeling of betrayal or of being lied with , we conclude our relationships. In such situations hastiness is not rewarding. Rather circumstances and events should be assessed before the actual person under assessment.
However, if such betrayals or lies are routine then its easy to make a general assumption about some one, their attitude towards you . And so as one lets go off the trust, nothing remains there.Not even the feeling of caring for the other. And that's how the subconscious mind then builds up the relation as if two cars pass by each other and drivers hardly notice that who is driving the car. This trust once lost, can be gained back , but very rarely. For trust once broken always caries the repaired cracks with it then.
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